The soft side of man...

was reading the newspaper this morning. there was an article on men being 'werid' when they speak to their gf... i think there r 3 different stages in life tt u will see the softer side of man..

stage 1:
when they start to date.. when they start to find a gf and talk to her.. it can be quite obvious.. for eg.. their words will end with Byeeeeee, hiiiiiii, instead of the macho BYE, HI.. no no i dun mean tt they r not the macho macho type anymore. well they can shout at their recruits: DOWN 10 OR HEY U $*()#*$*#$#$_#_#_. omg.. but the moment.. they pick up the phone tt their girl as wat most guys will call their gf, they will go.. helloooooo, how's ur day...(btw guys.. tt is quite a bad pick up line or just a start line on msn) :P

stage 2:
when they become fathers.. and start to enjoy being one.. when they will baby talk with they kids.. ga ga ... call daddy.. mum mum ( mean eat eat) everything will be so mellow and repeated.. u want to mum mum ( aka eat eat), want to pom pom ( aka bathe bathe). omg.. i think their temper will go down too.. cos now.. i guess maybe they realised that they have a little one to care for.. babies r just so wonderful beings .. :) i bet all the fathers will agree with me.. :P

stage 3:
when the retire and have kids... i read from somewhere that man only do appreciate kids when they r old. which means they will have fun with their grandkids... hmmm well probably cos during the mid age they have to work and thus no time for their own kids.. but when they retire they will have more time with their kids.. hmmm similarly.. they will baby talk to their grandkids..


would like to share the below link with ya pple.. really sweet.. and touching.. it bring us to the topic wat is the line btw a close fren and fren with a guy.. :)
http://www.happybirthdaymovie.hk/wmv/happy_news.swf

Growing up...

Growing up is a process all of us have to go through... some of us mature.. into young ladies and guys.. into man... i have seen so many of my peers changed... we all grew up and i am really glad for them... It is the enviroment tt shaped us..

we learn to deal with difficult situations and grow tougher.

We learn to not escape from reality and find solutions to deal with them.

We learn to support eachother and work together

we learn to smile and laugh together during high moments

We learn to cry and console eachother during low moments

we learn to take care of one another

we learn to criticise each other

We learn to praise each other

We learn to pat eachother back when one get discourage

The wrinkles around the eye are signs of aging and wisdom..

The once young and bubbly face

Is now aging and old...

"Grow Old With You"

I wanna make you smile whenever you're sad

Carry you around when your arthritis is bad

All I wanna do is grow old with you

I'll get your medicine when your tummy aches

Build you a fire if the furnace breaks

Oh it could be so nice, growing old with you

I'll miss you

Kiss you

Give you my coat when you are cold

Need you

Feed you

Even let ya hold the remote control

So let me do the dishes in our kitchen sink

Put you to bed if you've had too much to drink

I could be the man who grows old with you

I wanna grow old with you

omg.. the words r damn cute and meaningful.. :) so sweet... V-day's coming.. an idea for the guys out there.. throw in a guitar and some written words.. and the gal will be smittened!!

Language of Love...

The power of love.. omg i sound like some guru.. well i am by the way.. :P.. was reading an article by my fren just now.. on the power of hug is more than the power of a kiss. he had nt met a fren for a long time and the hug melted the ice btw them instantly..this was how powerful of hug.. when was the last time when someone gave ya a hug when ya sad or happy.. there r many ways of expressing one's love for eachother.. and i dun mean just btw guys and gals.. have ya ever wonder what type u r.... do ya like gettin a hug, spending quality time, gettin a present or words of affections or someone helping ya.. .. hmmm.. http://www.greaterquest.com/LoveLanguages.asp
Check this out.. and let me noe the results... :)

Just Purely Frens? hmmmmm

was reading the newspaper this morning, this article caught my eye. the concept of TRULY PLATONIC RELATIONSHIP. where a man and woman r just purely best frens. is this a possibility? well i think most woman and i mean most would think that sure y not.. frens only. BUT it is interesting that the article written by a man mentioned that a male stand would be: THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A COMPLETELY PLATONIC RELATIONSHIP.you are better off believing in alien abductions... but don't let woman know that." also in the paper: it mention that a guy said that " i don't think i could ever become very good friends with a woman I did nt want to sleep with.." HOW TRUE IS THIS? guys u answer it.. actually personally from the millions of woman out there!! i do think that a platonic frenship is possible.. but den again...hmmm :) everything is possible.

i really dun get man...they r werid... hmmmm is it just me.. or every gal out there? hmmm

i luvreee my daddy

okies.. everyone must be thinkin tt i am daddy's gal... yupz i am!! i admit it!!! today it was my dad's birthday.. wow.. time really flies.. he is quite old!!! i am so glad he is pickin my a new skill- Qi GONG from this really gd master.. hmmm paying quite a hefty price for it too.. well he is telling me how good, how wonderful it is. and he just practice it b4 going to bed.. really glad to see him so perk up.. had steamboat for a family dinner.. IT has been ages since we had one.. omg.. everyone is jsut so busy with their lives.. i really need to set aside more time for my family... really love them alot... they r no.1 in my heart..

den i made chocolate fondue for them... i tried the 58% chocolate.. it was really yummy!!!! thinkin of makin tt for my bday party... well but now i need to decided shld i make the milk chocolate or the dark chocolate.. :) wat do ya think guys... wat do ya want? Milk or Dark.. :0

next week will be better

It has been really eventful and busy week for me. it was this week which I saw another sides of people, things and objects. I am really grateful to someone for standing up for me on a particular stressful day in this week. Thanks for your angelic help when I was loss. I am sincerely touched by those actions and comments. Felt really encouraged by those words. It is really deeply appreciated..

Also, I really love my frens who stood there for me when I really need their support.. Thanks for being in my life and making it a special one. Though sometimes my life might enter a low pit, but it was u guys who bring it up to a high point again.. Creating another interesting story in my life… I am looking forward to create more stories in my life with you guys….everyone jy!!!...

proposing...

was watchin gals out loud just now.. it showed how a typical singaporen guy having a typical degree, living in a typical HDB flat, having a typical job WOULD TYPICALLY PROPOSE A GAL VIA ASKIN HER; do ya want to buy a hdb flat with me.. omg.. where is the creativity? okiess.. i am nt askin for too much right am i? hmmm well even a simple question like wld ya marry me and spend the rest of my life with me... beats.. u want to apply HDB with me OR NOT!!

this brings me to another question.. r sg gals nowaday really intimidating? r we askin too much from a guy? well i was reading an article this mornin.. it said tt gals dreams to be princess.. all i can say is tt gals likes to ve pampered.. we r born this way? hmmmm BUT tt does not mean tt we cannot be independent and work ourselves.. just tt we liked to be pampered... we can do tt ourselves.. no prob.. as wat i think .. we r movin in this fast paced society.. expectations do grow. well it isn't a one way thing.. guys do have higher expectations of gals.. looks, brains, independent.. i bet there is a def longer list than this....

PS:... i noe some of u do read.. wld love comments in my tag block... :P cheers...

someone to love..

"They say a person needs just three things to be truly happy in this world: someone to love, something to do, and something to hope for." - Thomas Edward Bodett (1955~) American Author, TV Host, Radio Commentator

I think the abv is really sweet.. it is nice to have have someone to love.. someone to ponder, someone to pray for.. and den u will have sth to do and finally sth to hope for.. eg hoping that the person tt u love will be safe, will be happy, will be blessed....


"Put your hand on a hot stove for a minute, and it seems like an hour. Sit with a pretty girl for an hour, and it seems like a minute. THAT'S relativity." - Albert Einstein

i really love this abv statements in my fren's blog...

blessed.....

I feel really blessed...pple ard me r really just too nice... feelin really touched.. i noe they will be there for me when i need them or even if i dun... and i treasure that... IT is just a blessing..... Thank's everyone for being a part in my life. everyone will have a special place in my heart...

2007

i am totally excited for this yr.. somehow it seems to be the start of a new life.. this yr i will be graduating.. means must find a job liao.. wow.. tt is fast.. but no worries.. i feel more confident and prepared i supposed then the lost sheep i was last yr.. and also the awaited long bday chalet which i really wanted since 21.. but i din had one.. this yr cross fingers.. hopefully that it will be a fantastic one... (HINT)!!!!! :) haha.. oh no!!!! excited abt my FYP too!!!! i hope i dun let my boss down.. will jy one.. and also my dearest shifu.. :) prob plan a trip some where to take a gd break.. this is going to be a great yr.. i noe.. :) full of hopes and anticipation.. :) ..

Continuation of 2006

It was a great 2006.. i think pple ard me seen the change in me.. from a hide in a corner werido to .. someone who brightens up pple's life by kenna suaned.. alamak.. but i must say tt i am so much happier and more confident.. alot of my frens told me tt..in 2006, i really need to thanks those frens who stick with me thr thick and thin.. be there for me when i am so stressed up cos of lab.. haha.. Thanks stef for coming out for supper with me.. when i really needed someone to talk to!!! Thanks my sec sch frens, JT, Jes, Jia and wei.. for being the my oldest bunch of frens.. i really treasure our frenship.. Oh also jc mates... olivia, and jess.. and beng and nick.. hmm did i leave anyone out.. thanks for lending me an ear when i needed.. beng thanks for being so gentleman.. really appreciate it.. :)

my 2006

it is 3am of the first morning in 2007.. just gt back frm the countdown at The esplanade while my dear frens r still out there in buses.. omg.. the fireworks were alright only i guess.. love the last yr one.. just saw a baby lizard walke past.. omg it totally freak me out.. hahah..

reacapin last yr...

alot of things happen. i guess u can say it is the most happening yr in my life.. the first half of the yr was packed with sch work.. Tm was exceptionally tough... well gt to noe audrey and sgg.. they made my lab really fun.. and enjoyable. gt to noe PAT!!!!! will def treasure her alot.. went thr with her ups and downs.. gt to noe uncle ben too!!!nice chap.. always super helpful.. but at times. really dunno wat he is thinkin..hmmmmmm Also saw certain sides of pple and gt scolded by wat my gor said naive.. hmmm well i am still innocent and naive.. ALOT of pple tell me tt.. i noe i noe.. i am still learning.. some pple tell me tt i see only the beautiful side of things.. hmm well i am maybe bein hopeful? i believe tt anything is possible and nt tt pessimistic.. somtimes when i think negative, it is just to cushion myself frm possible bad situations?

the 2nd half of the yr saw me busy with FYP... BUT i must say so far yr 4, it has been the best of my uni life cos of u guys!!!!!!

1. xue ping aka my AXA partner
2. jie ying for being ever so helpful esp in lab.. hehe and also promisin me nt to suan me!!
3. hui hui for being ever talkative and the entertainer.
4. huiping for always supporting me when i kenna suan
5. hui fang for lending me an ear and trainin me nt be too "innocent" (on my way man)
6. xiao ling for training my patience
7. MY dear shifu for her guidance and her crappiness.. omg... totally love ya shifu
8. ben uncle for being helpful in many ways.. + bonus.. sharing the being suan sessions
9. my justin gor for being my gor haha (Lame hor)
10. sgg for his sggness? er....
11. carmen for sharing so much in common
12. suresh for being such a thoughful person
13. cheek for his entertainment.... er.. cos U talks and talk ...
14. Prof Jack Wee for his ideas and creativity
15. wan si for her cheerfulness and maturity.. and her house for the bbq..:)
16. audrey for sharing my burden of kenna suan...
17. pekke for her cheerfulness and somtimes a meal parnter.. haha
18. boss for his advice and guidance
19. jerimiah for his crankyness omg!!!! super fun person to be with!!!
20. Mag for her experience in gettin her rights?
21. qinglin for her cheerfulness

hope tt i din miss anyone.. :) really njoy the jogging sessions and also the fri brekko sessions.. i guess i am startin to miss the Would ya.... uncle ben do think of more questions.. haha.. hmm not forget the F3with the femmine touch by me' hahahah

Well new frens r great.. i will really still treasure my old ones.. guys.. thanks for being there for my ups and downs.. U guys have been really great.. love ya.. and i sincerely hope tt u will have a great yr ahead.

The BBQ!!!!

30th dec 2006!!!

it was a day filled with activities.. omg.. super happening.. it was a nice closure for the yr. woke at ard 930am cos was really tired from the day b4 activities.. (was at brekkos chilling out). checked my modules allocation. managed to bid only for 1 mod and hence made an attempt to appeal. well tt is nt the hightlight of the day.. went out to meet stef for lunch at MOS!!!! the food chain.. nt the club.. just in case ya wondering pple!! .. really kinda missed her as she went to New Zealand for holidays. she brought back a bag of cookies for me and warned NT to finish all by myself.. FAT lah.. msut share with family.. :P

was supposed to meet Suresh... in town.. nice chap came all the way frm his place to meet me to go to wan si's house.. well.. he was given a last min notice to get the beer and wine... went down to PS to grab them but was spoilt for the different choice of wine. called Cheek. but den again he was in his lalala land.. heheh... hence consulted my jun shi.. chong han on wine.. THANK HAHAhan for the advice.. the pple really like the wines.. pick up a skill on wine too!! yeah!!!! went down to wan si house in a cab... and picked Jie ying up on the way.. :)

reached wansi's place ard 2 plus. nice place.. gt shan gt shui too!!! nice view... was super drained but den just went along to play bridge.. haha.. paired up twice with suresh but we lost.. cos jack was on the phone with him and he wan nt really payin any attention lah... jack came and we cont with Monopoly and JEnga!!! den we proceeded to play hmmm "table Tennis???" hmmmm well at times it was under tennis or sky tennis.. hahha jie ying n i were spectators though.. looks like a fun game.. shld considering pickin it up!!! :p

IT den started tooooo RAIN!!!! omg... cld nt start the fire.. pple came strollin in... rumours were all over abt the honours class.. damn scary how it spread. like the fire i guess... to those who r affected... dun bother abt it.. just follow ur heart and concentrate!!! manage to start the fire at ard 7pm.. and the bbq kick off... whaooo!!!!! the 3 amigos started their job... which is the bbq.. i was the butter gal for the night.. wan si being the host must entertain lah.. haha.. my buttering job din start off smoothly.. but gt shi jie aka wan si to teach.. pick up the skill damn fast!!! haha.. oh btw... according to jack.. think we charge 120 per hr liao... u can contact him for further details.. but the guys were really PRO lah!!!! bbq the whole night.. ard 11pm.. pple started to leave... well.. only,, me, jack, suresh , wansi and cheek stayed on to play ash-hole dadi!!! omg.. no joke leh.. cheek was really drunk.. OMG!!! but i guess entertaining.. wanted to try neat vodka.. but they din allow.. twice.. but all rejected.. next time must try!!! :P reached home only 3 plus am... omg.. so late din really sleep well the night.. though

it was a great night out!! i gt to noe lots of pple and also much better.. love such things... lookin forward to more of such stuff.. :)